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Getting your ex back.

The first thing that would strike your mind would be to call your ex for a counseling to settle up things. One might think that discussing about the problems you had in your past, how to cope up with those and how to settle up these problems would help you getting your ex back. Then maybe you are thinking a little backward. It’s a traditional feeling that counseling works. Yes it works but in some cases only. Not everywhere. Sometimes your invitation for a counseling would not be paid an ear also. It would fall on deaf ears. Also calling for a counseling may also lose your chances of your further trials of getting your ex.

So what to do to get back your ex.

Maybe first of all you should take as top and analyze the situation about what forced the breakup. Give it some common sense too. Think from your ex’s shoes also. Get to the point to know about where the grievance is coming from. Try to understand the facts from their point of view also. It would make them feel that you care for them still and agreeing to listen to them. If you are wrong it’s not bad to apologize. Bring the change in you if you are wrong.

What is your emotional status is and how you control it is also important.

If you have grievances, anger, hostility, then these are going to be shown up in your faces and your partner would feel uncomfortable with it. It’s better to remain cool and control your emotions as because the emotions are the main factor that is going to drive your ex-partner back to you.

You should try to match up your body language with your partner as this is going to make them feel comfortable. This would make them feel on a subconscious level that you are still with them with full support. While you have changed (If you had committed the mistake) or the relationship level has taken good grounds again, don’t force them to go with you. Give them the time to come by self. They would definitely come to you as you still love them. When you succeed in recreating the connection, the barriers/ walls are automatically going to fall down and the negative emotions are going to give way for the positive emotions.

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Ihab Salloum